## Detailed walkthrough
### [00:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=0s) The Absurdity and Formula of Middle-Aged CEO Micro-Dramas
The conversation opens with a humorous deconstruction of the wildly viral micro-dramas tailored to middle-aged audiences, specifically the absurd plot mechanics of modern romance tropes. Addressing a literature professor at the table, the host marvels at how completely fragmented and dizzyingly fast these story beats unfold. They recount the bizarre synopsis of a trending show where a 27-year-old billionaire CEO is drugged by a 27-year-old heiress. Desperate to protect his moral virtue, the CEO refuses to succumb and instructs his middle-aged housekeeper—a 45-year-old auntie—to throw the heiress out. When the CEO wakes up the next morning, he finds the 45-year-old housekeeper lying beside him. Astonishingly, she refuses any monetary settlement or compensation, which immediately causes the young tycoon to fall head over heels in love with her.
The tropes only multiply once the romance progresses. When the CEO proudly brings the middle-aged housekeeper home to meet his elite family, his father suddenly realizes that this very woman was the one who allegedly seduced him in his own youth. The table laughs at the shameless parade of clichés: the dramatic tropes of resurrection, betrayal, and relentless humiliation. In these scenes, antagonists repeatedly slap the heroine and douse her in red wine, only for an instantaneous reversal to take place. In the climax, the abusers break down and drop to their knees in terror as it is revealed that the humble 45-year-old cleaner is secretly the richest person in the world.
```mermaid
flowchart TD
accTitle: Anatomy of a Viral Micro-Drama Plot Loop
accDescr: A flowchart depicting the rapid cycle of insult, identity reversal, and dramatic retribution in short dramas.
subgraph Setup ["Episode 1: The Inciting Incident"]
A["Low-Status Protagonist<br/>(Cleaner, Bricklayer, Guard)"] --> B["Unjust Humiliation<br/>(Slapping, Wine, Abandonment)"]
end
subgraph Twist ["Episode 2: The Fast Reversal"]
B --> C["Sudden Identity Reveal<br/>(Stepping out of Luxury Car)"]
C --> D["Billionaire Status Unveiled<br/>('World's Richest Club')"]
end
subgraph Climax ["The Payoff"]
D --> E["Antagonists Kneel & Beg<br/>(Instant Cathartic Dopamine)"]
end
```
[01:23](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=83s) Shrinking Time Spans: From 140 Characters to One-Second Completion Rates
The panel reflects on the sheer addictiveness of this medium, recalling author Wang Shuo's observation that a viewer can sit down intending to watch for a moment and end up binge-watching short-form content for ten straight hours. The speakers trace the lineage of this hyper-fragmentation back to the dawn of social media, beginning when platforms like Sina Weibo introduced the strict 140-character limit. That text truncation ignited an inexorable drive toward brevity, compressing video formats down from fifteen seconds to five seconds, and ultimately to single-second clips designed purely to manipulate platform algorithms, where a one-second video easily achieves a 100% completion rate.
This relentless race to the bottom of the attention span has radically distorted other media, including news. Current short news videos flash complex subtitles for only three to five seconds. To actually comprehend the reporting, viewers are forced to constantly pause, scrub backward, and rewatch, perversely consuming more time than traditional formats would have taken. One speaker likens this frantic visual state to "having your eyebrows singed by fire"—an exhausting, constant state of panic and visual hyper-vigilance.
[02:46](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=166s) The Cheap Miracle Fantasy: Security Guards, Billionaires, and "The Million Pound Bank Note"
Examining the narrative appeal, the panel explores the guilty pleasures underlying these micro-dramas. They joke about potential progressive variants—such as an elite female CEO falling hopelessly in love with a frail, mediocre, middle-aged man, which they jokingly suggest would finally "save" men of their demographic. Yet the reigning king of the genre remains the male power-fantasy trope: an ultra-wealthy tycoon who masquerades as a humble security guard or a construction worker carrying bricks on a dusty job site. In the first one-minute episode, his materialistic girlfriend cruelly dumps him; by the very next one-minute episode, an ordinary Mercedes pulls up, the door opens, and the worker emerges wearing an ill-fitting, cheap tuxedo to announce that he is the supreme chairman of the "World's Richest Club," driving the regretful ex-girlfriend straight to her knees.
Despite the laughably crude lighting, recycled costumes, and repetitive sets, the table acknowledges that this formula scratches an ancient psychological itch. The panel compares these billionaire reveals to Mark Twain's classic story *The Million Pound Bank Note* and ancient knight legends. Human nature has always harbored an innate longing for unearned miracles—whether through sudden wealth or the childhood fantasy that one's ordinary parents are secretly adoptive guardians hiding a vast fortune. In literary structural-functionalist terms, these stories fulfill a core psychological function by demolishing social barriers of class, gender, and status. Furthermore, because the writers operate without any real comprehension of genuine wealth, their numbers lose all tether to reality; instead of dealing in realistic millions, every protagonist casually wields "hundreds of billions."
- **The Micro-Drama Aesthetic**: Blatantly low-budget production values, recurring sets, generic rental suits, and non-stop plot reversals delivered inside sixty-second increments.
- **The Psychological Core**: An unvarnished dopamine hit rooted in class vengeance, immediate vindication, and the universal human daydream of sudden aristocratic pedigree.
[05:32](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=332s) The 40-Billion Short Drama Boom vs. Traditional Film Aesthetics
The conversation turns to the economics of production. The speakers laugh about how traditional cultural creators are almost too honest for the modern marketplace. While micro-drama platforms charge exorbitant fees to unlock successive one-minute episodes, the speakers recall pouring their hearts into making their own cultural talk show, letting episodes run for two and a half hours and even filming extra episodes for free as a volunteer gesture simply because they loved the material and could not bear to cut it. That old-school dedication earned five-star ratings on Douban, but the market has shifted dramatically under their feet.
A veteran performing artist recently lamented at their table that the micro-drama industry has explosive economic momentum. In China, the theatrical film box office sits around 50 billion yuan, while the micro-drama market has rapidly surged to 42.5 billion yuan, threatening to overtake traditional cinema. In response, regulators and municipal leaders have begun pushing for quality upgrades, urging creators to guide short dramas away from cheap visceral stimulation and toward genuine artistic merit—evolving from the mere venting of crude emotions (情绪), to the expression of deeper feelings (情感), and ultimately to high-minded sentiments and cultural resonance (情怀).
Yet this structural shift has already fundamentally altered human perception. As children, reading a novel throughout an entire afternoon made hours vanish in what felt like a blink; today, reading for merely ten minutes can feel painfully protracted. Film narrative structures have responded in kind: while older Hollywood movies patiently took five minutes to establish the world before introducing an inciting crisis, modern movies drop a mini-crisis into the very first scene immediately following the opening credits.
[08:00](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=480s) Cognitive Decline and "Brain Rot": How Short Videos Alter Brain Hardware
The discussion culminates in a sobering look at neuroscientific research into how short-form video consumption and excessive reliance on generative AI are physically restructuring the human brain. Citing recent large-scale, global physiological studies utilizing neurological brain scans, the speakers explain that individuals who constantly consume fragmented short videos or offload critical writing and thinking to AI exhibit marked reductions in neural activation and cognitive depth.
Rather than stimulating the brain through high visual turnover, the relentless stream of micro-content induces passive reception. Because the viewer never has to actively imagine, synthesize, organize, or interpret narrative subtext, brain activity flatlines compared to reading or deep contemplation. The panel stresses that this is not merely a psychological or mental habit; it is a permanent rewiring of the brain's physical "hardware" from which there is no easy return. This rapid decline in cognitive stamina directly led the Oxford English Dictionary to crown "brain rot" as its 2024 Word of the Year—defining a systemic decay in mental faculty that leaves the human mind capable of processing nothing beyond trivial, bite-sized fragments of information.
- **2024 Oxford Word of the Year**: "Brain rot" (脑腐), encapsulating the measurable decline of cognitive focus and critical depth caused by hyper-fragmented digital feeds.
- **Neurological Impact**: Brain imaging reveals that passive short-form media consumption causes measurable decreases in neural activation and long-term functional restructuring of the brain.
嘉宾引申出法国情境主义思想家居伊·德波(Guy Debord)在1967年出版的经典著作《景观社会》(*The Society of the Spectacle*)。德波早在上世纪就预言了现代人彻底被“看”与“被看”所定义的生存境况:真实的原生体验正在被观看与展示全面替代,人们仿佛不再需要亲身涉足世界,只要透过屏幕看别人展现,就完成了替代性的经验经历。
针对这种“看与被看”(to see or to be seen)的生存方式,嘉宾指出这并非互联网时代的专属,它最早孕育于高密度的大都市文化中:
- 20世纪70至80年代的香港,城市人口高度集中,大众传媒与狗仔八卦文化极其繁盛。
- 青年人走在街上或在巴士站等车时,身姿体态往往带有一种刻意摆出的腔调与姿势(如同周星驰电影中调侃的那种站姿)。
- 这种姿态本质上是一种心知肚明的“被注视”反应——每个人潜意识里都觉得某个角落有镜头正对着自己,随时可能登上八卦周刊或电视屏幕。
- 长期生活在都市中的人,早已本能地将自我规训为时刻在演出的角色,严格审视自己在公共场所的一举一动,提防着自己不雅的一面暴露在众目睽睽之下。这种早在都市化浪潮中萌芽的表演意识,如今被短视频进一步推向了无死角的极端。
[21:05](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1265s) The "Check-In" Era and Keynes's Unfulfilled 15-Hour Workweek
The conversation begins by examining how the internet and short-video culture have fundamentally distorted how people experience daily life. In the past, people traveled to cities simply to be there, but today, modern life has transformed into an obsessive ritual of "checking in" and documenting every moment. The speakers highlight an unwritten contemporary rule: if an event was not filmed and uploaded to social media, "it simply doesn't exist." Every encounter, dish, and scenic view must be converted into a photo or video clip to validate its reality. While some people can comfortably embrace whatever novelty the world introduces, this relentless digital performance often comes at the expense of genuine inner peace.
```mermaid
flowchart TD
accTitle: The Technological Acceleration Paradox
accDescr: Chart illustrating how technological efficiency leads to increased workload rather than Keynes's predicted leisure.
subgraph KeynesPromise ["Keynesian Ideal"]
A["Technological Progress"] --> B["Labor Replaced by Automation"]
B --> C["15-Hour Workweek / Ample Leisure"]
end
subgraph ModernReality ["The Modern Trap"]
D["Ultra-Fast Travel & Mobile Tech"] --> E["Compressed Schedules & Instant Access"]
E --> F["Immediate Meetings & Nonstop Phone Scrolling"]
end
```
This dynamic prompts a critique of technological utopianism, referencing the famous prediction by economist John Maynard Keynes. Keynes projected that by the present era, technological innovation would automate sufficient labor to reduce the working week to just 15 hours—equivalent to working only three days a week. Instead, modern technology has engineered what the speakers describe as a "technological scam." Increased convenience has not generated spare time; it has merely compressed schedules and heightened expectations:
- A person no longer travels by slow ox cart; they board an airplane and fly from Shenzhen to Beijing in two hours.
- Rather than savoring the time saved, they land at noon and are immediately scheduled for a high-stakes business meeting that very afternoon.
- Even while cruising at high altitudes, passengers spend their time compulsively scrolling through smartphone feeds rather than resting.
[22:35](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1355s) Generational Divides: Quiet Nostalgia vs. Digital Natives
The table questions why technological advancement has failed to deliver its foundational promise of leisure and stress-free play. The speakers observe that discussions among their peers are consistently dominated by vocabularies of "anxiety," "tension," and the desperate struggle to "find peace of mind." They realize this collective unease stems from their status as a transitional, privileged generation that still remembers a quieter, slower-paced world. Having tasted that stillness, they acutely perceive the accelerating rush and digital crowding as a painful loss.
In sharp contrast, children born in the smartphone era—who have gazed into screens since the age of two or three—possess an entirely different psychological wiring:
- Terms like "anxiety," "overly busy," or the longing for "inner stillness" carry little to no meaning for them.
- From their earliest moments of consciousness, they interact with the world through perpetual multitasking.
- Fast-paced digital saturation is not an intrusion on their peace, but an environment as natural to them as breathing.
- When younger people hear older generations lament the hyper-accelerated modern pace, they genuinely cannot comprehend the concern, asking simply: "Isn't it just supposed to be this way?"
[24:21](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1461s) Lu Yu on Chosen Busyness, Relative Speed, and the Regret of Inventors
Dou Wentao asks Chen Luyu whether this ceaseless digital momentum worries her personally, or if she feels trapped by the constant pressure to move faster. Lu Yu responds that her hectic pace is not an external imposition, but an active, deliberate personal choice. She acknowledges that while she could technically slow down, she would not actually enjoy a languid, idle existence. She argues that speed itself is fundamentally relative rather than absolute; human beings habitually treat their own formative pasts as universal baselines, automatically branding anything faster as abnormal or unhealthy.
At the same time, Lu Yu confesses to deep pessimism regarding humanity's technological trajectory, pondering whether humans will ultimately be undone by their own creations. She references Sam Altman's somber appearance at a conference in Beijing, where he admitted that the trajectory of artificial intelligence had already outstripped his imagination. She groups Altman with two other historic figures who expressed deep regret over their world-altering creations:
- **J. Robert Oppenheimer**, haunted by the devastating power of the atomic bomb.
- **Tim Berners-Lee**, the inventor of the World Wide Web, who has openly lamented the centralized, surveillance-driven state of the modern internet.
- **Sam Altman**, grappling with the unpredictable ramifications of advanced artificial intelligence.
Lu Yu notes a certain hypocrisy among pioneering scientists who want it both ways: it is inconceivable that brilliant minds do not foresee the destructive potential of their breakthroughs, yet they forge ahead anyway, only to issue public apologies and expressions of regret once the genie has escaped the bottle.
[25:47](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1547s) Short-Video Algorithms and an 80-Year-Old Mother's Smile
The conversation moves to the architecture of short-video platforms, where product managers engineer features around exploitable human psychological vulnerabilities. Algorithms deliberately cater to low-brow impulses to maximize engagement, funneling users into narrower loops of interest. Despite these critiques, one guest speaks up to defend short videos, admitting he genuinely appreciates them. Before sleep, his regular wind-down routine consists of either playing computer games or wearing headphones to watch short clips of live musical concerts, finding comfort in the snippets until he drifts off.
To illustrate the unexpected value of the medium, he shares a deeply personal story about his mother:
- His mother is over 80 years old and has suffered from declining health and severe mobility issues in her legs over the past two years.
- Having spent her life as a vibrant, highly social, and talkative woman, being confined indoors was deeply distressing for her.
- During a visit, he sat with her, but after ten minutes, their conversation ran dry—a common reality between adult children and aging parents who lead separate daily lives.
- Both sat together in silence, scrolling on their respective devices: he on his smartphone, and his mother on her tablet.
- Looking over, he saw a glowing, genuine smile on his mother's face as she watched short videos about wellness, exercise, health maintenance, and travel.
- He felt deeply touched, but also humbled and ashamed that short-form content creators were able to bring a sense of joy and vitality to his 80-year-old mother that he, as her son, could not provide.
[28:23](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1703s) Sensory Gluttony: "Mealtime Shows," Shower Audio, and the Void
The story of the mother sparks Dou Wentao to reflect on the deeper condition at play: the relentless hijacking and insatiable "greed" of human sensory organs. Humans have become incapable of enduring sensory voids:
- During meals, people cannot simply eat; they require a "mealtime companion show" (*xiafan ju*), turning talk shows like *A Date With Lu Yu* (*Luyu's Show*), *Qiang Qiang Huo San Ren*, or *Yuan Zhou Pai* into digital side dishes to make eating bearable.
- While taking a shower, people cannot stand listening to the simple rush of running water and must play background podcasts or music.
- The five sensory faculties—eyes, ears, nose, tongue, and body—demand continuous, simultaneous input, treating any silence or stillness as an unbearable void.
Dou Wentao quotes Laozi's ancient warning that "the five colors blind the eye" (五色令人目盲), questioning whether continuously feeding this sensory hunger resembles pathological overeating. In contrast, another speaker pushes back against moralizing the habit, arguing that listening to familiar audio while showering or watching a binge-worthy show while eating provides real comfort and relaxation, functionally no different from white noise. As the discussion brushes against human tendencies to project faults onto algorithms rather than practicing self-restraint, someone introduces the evocative aphorism that "love is the smallest unit of..." before the segment draws to a close.
[31:22](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1882s) Breaking Video Gatekeeping, the Podcast Escape Hatch, and Shower Companionship
The discussion opens with a reflection on how short-form video represents a democratization of media akin to an egalitarian ideal. In the past, video production was strictly gatekept by technical institutions; only those with formal, professional training were deemed qualified to produce moving images. Today, that institutional barrier has been completely shattered. Yet, as media formats condense into bite-sized clips, an equal and opposite demand emerges for long-form content. While society feels increasingly trapped and manipulated by algorithmic feeds, podcasts are highlighted as perhaps the sole remaining medium that manages to evade algorithmic tyranny.
```mermaid
flowchart TD
accTitle: The Shifting Media Ecosystem
accDescr: Diagram contrasting algorithmic short-form video democratization with the companionship and depth of long-form podcasts.
subgraph ShortForm["Short-Form Media"]
A["Democratized Creation<br/>(Barriers broken)"] --> B["Algorithmic Control<br/>& Rapid Feeds"]
end
subgraph LongForm["Long-Form Counterweight"]
C["Podcasts & Deep Audio<br/>(Algorithm escape)"] --> D["Immersive Companionship<br/>(Showering, running, commuting)"]
end
ShortForm -.->|"Creates demand for"| LongForm
```
This dynamic leads directly into the psychological need for long-form companionship during mundane daily routines. One speaker admits to listening to podcasts while taking a shower, pointing out that ten-second or one-minute video clips are useless when your hands are wet and your attention is occupied; what is required is sustained, uninterrupted audio lasting at least an hour. The table breaks into lighthearted banter over the logistics of shower listening:
- Doubts are raised about whether anything can actually be heard over the roar of running water ("Have you tried? You turn off the water, right? Just standing in there?").
- The shower listener clarifies the practical technique: you simply place your phone to the side on the counter, crank the speaker volume up to the absolute maximum, and it cuts right through the water noise.
- The inability to remain idle for even a single idle moment in the shower is reframed not as a neurotic flaw, but affectionately as an intense, restless love for life.
---
[32:42](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1962s) True Crime Inspiration and the Dark Subconscious: From Eileen Chang to Freud
The conversation shifts to how listeners weave audio into their physical lives. A literary guest (likely Professor Xu Zidong) shares an anecdote about a netizen who revealed that they regularly listen to his academic lectures on Eileen Chang while out running. His initial reaction was self-conscious embarrassment—he wondered if the runner was subtly mocking or bringing him down by treating his scholarship as mindless workout noise—until others pointed out that reserving someone's voice for exercise is actually the ultimate badge of respect.
This confession prompts another speaker to admit their own secret listening habits with a touch of shame. While their colleague hosts a wholesome, enlightened podcast, they have spent the past several months binging on relentlessly dark, grim true-crime podcasts detailing bizarre cases from all across the globe. Because their upcoming novel revolves around criminal violence, murder, and malice, they sought creative inspiration from real-world atrocities to the point of obsession, only to be chilled to the bone by what they discovered:
> "It turns out there are so many reasons to kill in this world; of course, you could say it boils down to greed, resentment, and hatred. But all sorts of things can trigger the impulse to commit murder—perhaps just a look, a rejection, or even a seduction."
Immersing oneself in these case studies ultimately triggers a crisis of personal conscience. Having spent an entire lifetime believing oneself to be fundamentally benevolent—or at least harmless—the speaker begins to doubt their own innocence. They recognize that the latent seeds of greed, malice, and anger reside within everyone; the only difference between an ordinary citizen and a killer is that circumstances have not yet conspired to pull the trigger.
The panel links this realization to the profound foresight of Sigmund Freud and Karl Marx. When Freud declared that every human being is an artist, it was not merely warm psychological comfort; he identified art as the therapeutic eruption of the subconscious mind after dreams have been suppressed by waking reality. Today, equipped with smartphones, ordinary people can instantaneously project their subconscious desires outward—fulfilling Freud's prophecy through modern technology. The dialogue then turns to the Freudian structural model of the psyche:
- The speaker explains that daily personal misery stems from the *ego* constantly failing to meet the moral ideals demanded by the *superego*.
- The panel points out the underlying culprit: the ego is caught in an impossible crossfire because underneath it churns the *id*—the primal reservoir of raw, biological animal instinct and desire.
---
[35:55](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2155s) Fading Hormones and Rising Morality: Chu T'ien-wen’s Encounter with Youth
The tension between moral ambition and biological drive is captured in a humorous, bittersweet adage shared at the table: an older man once observed that with aging, "my physical state declines year by year, while my moral standard rises day by day." The panel reflects on the profound truth behind this quip: morality is often downstream of physiology. When raw biological desires naturally attenuate, human beings suddenly find it much easier to act with magnanimity, restraint, and compassion.
This observation sparks a vivid reminiscence of a past show featuring Taiwanese author Chu T'ien-wen. Dou Wentao and the guests recall her describing an encounter on the street:
> "Yesterday I was passing by a place, and a group of teenage high schoolers in uniforms walked past me, flirting and laughing. I could actually smell the hormones they were emitting, wow, that intense scent. But in that moment, I didn't feel sad... I had no reaction, but rather a bit of compassion. All the heartbreak, betrayal, selling out, expectations, and turmoil they have to endure to satisfy those hormones, none of it has anything to do with me... Being able to be a more quiet, peaceful person—this state of mind is happy."
Chu T'ien-wen’s realization embodies the relief of outgrowing the hormonal storm. Rather than mourning the loss of youth, she viewed the teenagers' biological vigor with sympathetic detachment, acutely aware of the emotional agony, insecurity, and social turmoil required to fulfill those chemical urges. Reaching an age where one is liberated from that hormonal turbulence allows for genuine inner peace. The panel notes that the humorous contrast between declining physical vigor and rising moral virtue is actually a poignant literary commentary on the human condition: our ethics, desires, and spiritual serenity are inextricably tied to our biology.
---
[37:56](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2276s) The Emotional Whiplash of Short Clips, WeChat Overload, and Guo Degang's Overnight Success
The discussion broadens into an analysis of contemporary emotional instability. The guests observe that emotional issues have reached unprecedented heights, largely because digital media bombards the brain's instinctual wiring. The human brain cannot help but produce an immediate emotional reaction to whatever information it ingests. In moderation, emotions remain balanced; but when people consume a relentless firehose of fragmented content all day, their internal equilibrium shatters into an exhausting emotional roller coaster—spiking into envy when seeing a peer succeed, and dropping into malicious schadenfreude when seeing a peer stumble.
A major culprit is that short videos aggressively erase the long, grueling *process* of achievement:
- Clips present frictionless success narratives: someone bought an asset, launched a project, and instantly became fabulously wealthy, leaving viewers feeling stimulated yet deeply anxious.
- The panel invokes famed crosstalk comedian Guo Degang's wry retort to critics: *"People say I became an overnight success, but which night was it?"* Guo spent well over a decade performing in obscurity, often in drafty tea houses where the actors on stage literally outnumbered the patrons in the seats. Short-form clips compress that decade of grit into a single sensational payoff, leaving audiences addicted to instant gratification.
Simultaneously, digital efficiency tools like WeChat foster a dangerous "illusion of capacity." Because modern communication tools make coordination frictionless, people mistakenly assume their mental and physical capacity has expanded infinitely. Instead of exercising moderation, users drown under an avalanche of inbound demands:
- Colleagues and friends send unrelenting cascades of 50-second voice memos rather than concise text, treating communication without restraint.
- One's daily schedule is shattered into fragments: consoling Xu Zidong ("Xu Lao") one minute, answering requests from Lu Yu the next, and managing external platform commitments in between.
- The human psyche is subjected to emotional whiplash: half a minute of irritation, half a minute of elation, half a minute of amusement, and half a minute of fury. This chronic micro-fragmentation of attention and sentiment is identified as the root cause of pervasive modern anxiety.
---
[40:59](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2459s) Optimism on the Chang'an Avenue Overpass: The Democratic Urge to Perform
Despite these structural anxieties, one speaker professes an underlying "optimism amidst pessimism," pointing out a genuinely vibrant cultural shift catalyzed by short-form video: ordinary citizens have developed an extraordinary, uninhibited appetite for self-expression and public performance.
To illustrate this, the speaker shares a personal story from an evening video shoot:
- After wrapping a formal studio interview, the production crew headed out at dusk to capture atmospheric B-roll of the Beijing cityscape.
- They drove past the China World Trade Center on Chang'an Avenue and set up cameras on a pedestrian overpass further to the east, overlooking the glittering river of rush-hour traffic.
- Upon stepping onto the overpass, they discovered the walkway was already packed with independent content creators, smartphone rigs in hand, all earnestly staging, speaking, and filming their own personal broadcasts against the dramatic city backdrop.
- Seeing the professional crew arrive with bulky equipment and heavy production gear, the crowd of amateur creators buzzed with excitement, assuming some mega-celebrity or top-tier digital influencer had descended upon the bridge.
The speaker expresses genuine admiration for the everyday creators' utter lack of stage fright. In an earlier era, speaking out loud to a camera in a crowded public street would evoke intense embarrassment; today, ordinary people claim the public square with total artistic confidence, proving that the urge to broadcast one's voice has become an authentic, irrepressible modern folk culture.
[41:44](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2504s) Performative Emotion and the Lack of Embarrassment in the Short-Video Era
The discussion opens with an observation about how the younger generation approaches self-expression without a shred of self-consciousness or social embarrassment. An anecdote is shared about a young girl who approached the speaker for a photo, and immediately afterward turned her camera on herself to shoot a short video, instantly bursting into theatrical tears. In that moment, she was audibly lamenting, "Who in this society would care if you’re crying, or if you’re in pain?" Her performative personality seemed to switch on at the press of a button. While one speaker wonders whether short-form video culture is reshaping everyone into an expressive, hyper-confident artist—which could arguably be seen as an empowering evolution of human nature—another wryly counters the sentiment: "If I were your family member, I'd be worried; if you were a stranger on the street, I'd praise you."
This prompts a deeper reflection on innate personality differences. One speaker admits to coming from a family that has always kept a strictly low profile, taking after a father who spent his entire life avoiding attention. Outside of professional duty, there is virtually zero personal desire for self-expression: "To put it bluntly, if you didn't pay me, I wouldn't even want to speak." Despite an avid love for reading, the speaker feels no urge to write books or broadcast personal thoughts to masses of strangers, preferring instead intimate confidences shared among a small circle of two or three close friends. Adapting to the modern internet was initially baffling—the early craze of posting on Weibo seemed pointless if it did not generate income, though it was eventually recognized as an indirect vehicle for personal goals.
- **The Instant-Weeping Phenomenon**: Young creators exhibit an uncanny ability to access intense, camera-ready emotional states instantly, reflecting a broader cultural shift toward public performativity.
- **Audience Perspective vs. Family Concern**: High-decibel public dramatics can be entertaining to strangers on a feed, but distressing for immediate family members to witness in real life.
- **The Low-Profile Disposition**: The inclination to express oneself publicly is not universal; some naturally prefer private, small-circle dialogues and see public broadcast as unnatural unless tied to professional obligations.
---
[43:37](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2617s) Public Scrutiny, Sweet Burdens, and the Fear of Losing Freedom
Holding back one's voice can be a virtue that protects one's reputation, as speaking constantly inevitably dilutes the value of one's insights. Yet beneath this reticence often lies a genuine sense of apprehension. Making a public talk show feels like walking on thin ice because it exposes the speaker to external judgments, uncontrollable variables, and the inherent limits of personal knowledge. While private conversations allow friends to challenge and support each other freely, stepping into the public eye turns visibility into a double-edged sword. Anticipation from an audience acts as a "sweet burden"—the higher the expectations, the more suffocating the pressure becomes, gradually eroding personal freedom.
Despite this pressure, the speakers agree that an authentic voice requires an uncompromising bottom line: one must still speak what one truly sees and believes, rather than pandering to popular sentiment just to stay safe. A participant reflects on a guiding maxim: "When you fear something, it exists; when you face it, it disappears." If fear paralyzes speech or action, that fear remains permanent. The extreme dread of public exposure often masks an underlying craving for absolute freedom—a desire to remain completely self-centered within an isolated room where one never has to compromise, answer to anyone, or adapt to whoever is sitting across the table.
```mermaid
flowchart TD
accTitle: The Tension Between Public Expectation and Authentic Freedom
accDescr: Diagram illustrating how public visibility creates expectations, which either leads to pandering or facing fear with an authentic bottom line.
subgraph PublicPressure["The Public Sphere"]
A["Public Visibility & Acclaim"] --> B["Audience Expectations\n('Sweet Burden')"]
B --> C{"Reaction to Fear"}
end
subgraph DivergentPaths["Creative Choices"]
C -->|"Pandering & Compromise"| D["Loss of Freedom\n& Diluted Voice"]
C -->|"Facing Fear Head-On"| E["Uncompromising Bottom Line\n(Speaking True Thoughts)"]
C -->|"Complete Retreat"| F["Isolation in Private Room\n(Absolute Freedom)"]
end
```
---
[46:05](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2765s) Tearjerkers on the Feed: Puppies, Surprise Homecomings, and Emotional Manipulation
The conversation turns to late-night scrolling and the emotional pull of short video algorithms. Despite being cynical media professionals, the speakers admit to frequently welling up with tears while lying in bed alone watching viral clips. One participant recounts being unfailingly moved by birthday surprise videos where parents present a child who longed for a pet with a puppy or kitten hidden inside a box, causing the child to dissolve into tears of pure joy. Another shares a resonant trope: an elementary school teacher being filmed while discussing how much she misses her son deployed overseas in the Middle East, unaware that her son is already home and silently hiding behind the classroom door before stepping out to embrace her.
These vignettes highlight how modern short-form video functions less as intellectual communication and more as pure visceral manipulation, using condensed imagery and narrative tropes to strike the viewer's emotional chords directly. This raises an inevitable debate about authenticity and staging. While some viral clips capture genuine life events, a vast portion are carefully staged theatrical productions that blur the boundaries of reality. Staging emotional reality for engagement creates new ethical dilemmas in digital media, even if the late-night consumer in bed still walks away with a deeply satisfying emotional release.
- **The Birthday Pet Surprise**: Clips featuring children unwrapping puppies or kittens consistently trigger emotional reactions by capturing raw childhood longing and fulfillment.
- **The Military Homecoming Trope**: Staged or semi-staged classroom reunions leverage patriotic duty, familial separation, and dramatic irony to guarantee high viewer engagement.
- **Emotional Efficacy over Truth**: Even when viewers suspect a clip is scripted or staged, the direct visual impact often bypasses intellectual defenses, providing an accessible emotional catharsis.
---
[48:19](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2899s) Overrating Suffering, Diagnosing Urban Depression, and Classical Wisdom
The discussion pivots toward real-life trauma, referencing an incident where a speaker nearly drowned. Although such near-death brushes provide gripping material for public anecdotes once the wounds heal, the speaker refuses to romanticize them: "I think I’ve overrated suffering. I would rather have never suffered and lived an uneventful, ordinary life." When a guest brings up living with depression, the host reflects on his own state of mind. Though recognizing that being deeply analytical, delicate, and sensitive likely places him somewhere on the psychological spectrum, he intentionally avoids clinical testing or formal psychiatric labels. In his view, unless everyday function is disrupted, seeking out labels often creates unnecessary trouble where none existed. A playful disclaimer is added: anyone genuinely ill must seek proper medical help, but ordinary urban neuroses should not be magnified out of proportion.
Turning toward remedies for psychological distress, the host expresses skepticism toward relying solely on superficial remedies like commercial yoga, meditation trends, or modern self-help. Instead, he argues that the vast majority of contemporary "soul chicken soup" circulating online is simply a diluted, derivative spin on ancient philosophies. True psychological equilibrium comes from seeking foundational wisdom directly at its source—specifically the classical texts of Daoism (Laozi and Zhuangzi) and Buddhist philosophy. Grasping these root classics reveals that modern inspirational formulas are merely offshoots of centuries-old thought, making the direct study of ancient sages far more nourishing than consuming endless digital summaries.
- **Demythologizing Suffering**: Experiencing severe brush-with-death trauma is not a noble badge of honor; living an ordinary, untroubled life is far preferable to surviving harrowing ordeals.
- **Resisting Premature Labels**: Subtle urban anxiety and emotional sensitivity do not always require clinical pathologizing, as excessive diagnostic fixation can exacerbate problems that could otherwise be absorbed naturally.
- **Source Wisdom vs. Derivative Soup**: Modern digital inspirational content mostly recycles ancient Buddhist and Daoist principles into simplified formulas; going straight to the classics offers deeper, more enduring clarity.
```mermaid
flowchart TD
accTitle: 庄子知识观与适度哲学
accDescr: 展现从有限生命面对无限知识的困境,到停于所不知并追求恰到好处的心态转变。
subgraph Dilemma ["认知困境"]
A["吾生也有涯<br/>生命与精力有限"]
B["知也无涯<br/>宇宙知识无限"]
A & B --> C["以有涯随无涯<br/>殆已(焦虑、枯竭)"]
end
subgraph Solution ["处世解法"]
C --> D["止于其所不知<br/>安然停驻,不自欺欺人"]
D --> E["恰到好处的人生姿态<br/>知足不贪,及格即圆满"]
end
```
> [32:42](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=1962s) It turns out there are so many reasons to kill in this world; of course, you could say it boils down to greed, resentment, and hatred. But all sorts of things can trigger the impulse to commit murder—perhaps just a look, a rejection, or even a seduction.
> [35:55](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2155s) Yesterday I was passing by a place, and a group of teenage high schoolers in uniforms walked past me, flirting and laughing. I could actually smell the hormones they were emitting, wow, that intense scent. But in that moment, I didn't feel sad... I had no reaction, but rather a bit of compassion. All the heartbreak, betrayal, selling out, expectations, and turmoil they have to endure to satisfy those hormones, none of it has anything to do with me... Being able to be a more quiet, peaceful person—this state of mind is happy. — Chu T'ien-wen
> [37:56](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2276s) People say I became an overnight success, but which night was it? — Guo Degang
> [41:44](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2504s) If I were your family member, I'd be worried; if you were a stranger on the street, I'd praise you.
> [41:44](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2504s) To put it bluntly, if you didn't pay me, I wouldn't even want to speak.
> [43:37](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2617s) When you fear something, it exists; when you face it, it disappears.
> [48:19](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLA5U4u6wU&t=2899s) I think I’ve overrated suffering. I would rather have never suffered and lived an uneventful, ordinary life.
[11:21] 窦文涛: 既不是宋朝也不是秦朝,起码这个时代有空调
[28:23] 窦文涛: 五色令人目盲
[32:42] It turns out there are so many reasons to kill in this world; of course, you could say it boils down to greed, resentment, and hatred. But all sorts of things can trigger the impulse to commit murder—perhaps just a look, a rejection, or even a seduction.
[35:55] Chu T'ien-wen: Yesterday I was passing by a place, and a group of teenage high schoolers in uniforms walked past me, flirting and laughing. I could actually smell the hormones they were emitting, wow, that intense scent. But in that moment, I didn't feel sad... I had no reaction, but rather a bit of compassion. All the heartbreak, betrayal, selling out, expectations, and turmoil they have to endure to satisfy those hormones, none of it has anything to do with me... Being able to be a more quiet, peaceful person—this state of mind is happy.
[37:56] Guo Degang: People say I became an overnight success, but which night was it?
[41:44] If I were your family member, I'd be worried; if you were a stranger on the street, I'd praise you.
[41:44] To put it bluntly, if you didn't pay me, I wouldn't even want to speak.
[43:37] When you fear something, it exists; when you face it, it disappears.
[48:19] I think I’ve overrated suffering. I would rather have never suffered and lived an uneventful, ordinary life.
[51:42] 吾生也有涯,而知也无涯;以有涯随无涯,殆已!
[51:42] 考500分录取,多考一分都是浪费,多考一分就是耍流氓!
[54:13] 窦文涛: 乱世相逢,承蒙凤凰栽培,没齿不忘。
Original transcript
[0:00] This "CEO falls in love with me" drama,
[0:02] Professor, as a teacher of modern
[0:04] literature history, the plot is so
[0:05] fragmented—it’s so short I can’t
[0:07] even remember it.
[0:09] >> It’s about this middle-aged, sort of
[0:11] like a housekeeper aunt.
[0:13] >> The CEO wakes up after a night to find
[0:16] a 45-year-old housekeeper aunt lying
[0:18] next to him. Wait, I’m getting
[0:21] confused; I think the premise was a 27-
[0:24] year-old heiress drugged this 27-
[0:27] year-old CEO. Then the CEO, to protect
[0:30] his virtue, refuses to give in and even
[0:32] has the housekeeper aunt kick her out
[0:35] or something. Then he wakes up to find
[0:38] this 45-year-old housekeeper aunt
[0:40] sitting there, and she doesn’t even
[0:42] want money or compensation. The CEO
[0:44] falls head over heels for her, and
[0:46] after falling in love, he takes her
[0:47] home to meet his parents. When they get
[0:49] home to meet his parents, the CEO’s
[0:51] father realizes this is the person who
[0:53] seduced him when he was young—wait,
[0:54] this is a cliché, this is so cringey.
[0:56] >> Cliché.
[0:57] >> So, then.
[0:58] >> It’s a resurrection; actually, the
[1:00] resurrection is also a cliché.
[1:02] >> It’s like, "You’re seducing my son
[1:04] now," and then they keep humiliating
[1:06] her, humiliating her, humiliating her
[1:07] —slapping, pouring red wine—but of
[1:09] course, the plot immediately flips, and
[1:11] everyone who humiliated her breaks down
[1:13] and gets on their knees, right? And
[1:15] then the climax hits. Turns out this 45
[1:18] -year-old housekeeper aunt is actually
[1:20] the world’s richest person. I feel
[1:23] like these short videos, these kinds of
[1:26] things—like Wang Shuo said, you can
[1:29] easily binge-watch them for ten hours
[1:31] —is this what "short" means? Some say
[1:36] this era started with Weibo’s 140-
[1:38] character limit, demanding short text,
[1:40] and then videos just kept getting
[1:42] shorter, to the point where now you see
[1:45] ...
[1:46] >> Maybe 15 seconds.
[1:48] >> 15 seconds, five seconds—because the
[1:51] completion rate for one second is 100%.
[1:53] You know how fast news short videos are
[1:55] now? You have to pause them. A page of
[1:58] subtitles for a news clip only lasts
[2:00] three or five seconds, but the content
[2:03] requires a rewatch.
[2:04] >> You have to rewatch it, which is
[2:06] annoying and actually wastes more time.
[2:08] You have to keep pausing and pausing
[2:10] just to see the content of the news.
[2:12] >> Don't you guys feel like it’s a bit
[2:14] like, you know, having your eyebrows
[2:16] singed by fire?
[2:17] >> But you know, it’s interesting,
[2:18] because I’ve really wanted to watch
[2:20] these short dramas lately, thinking
[2:22] there might be some kind of guilty
[2:23] pleasure in it. Hey, you see, it even
[2:25] has a slight feminist touch at the end.
[2:28] People should make more progressive
[2:30] short dramas in the future, like a
[2:32] female CEO falling for a middle-aged,
[2:35] frail, average guy.
[2:36] >> Yeah,
[2:37] >> I mean,
[2:38] >> It’s basically trying to save us.
[2:40] >> Right, it’s void, totally void, but
[2:42] you see, it’s also very relevant to
[2:45] the present.
[2:46] >> It’s like rich people are so obsessed
[2:48] with pretending to be security guards.
[2:51] Or just some regular guy, and the plot
[2:54] twists are so funny. It starts with a
[2:57] construction worker moving bricks on a
[2:59] job site.
[3:00] >> Then his girlfriend says she doesn’t
[3:02] want him, and the next episode—
[3:04] because it’s one minute per episode
[3:06] —what happens? The next episode, one
[3:08] minute per episode.
[3:09] >> The next scene is definitely her being
[3:12] with some rich guy. Then, a car—well,
[3:17] not a Rolls-Royce, maybe a Mercedes in
[3:20] these short dramas—the door opens,
[3:22] and the construction worker steps out
[3:25] in a tuxedo. You can tell it’s a
[3:30] cheap one, but that’s how they do it.
[3:33] Bam, he’s like, "I am the chairman of
[3:35] the World’s Richest Club," and
[3:37] she’s supposed to fall to her knees.
[3:39] And then, the woman who dumped him, oh,
[3:42] does she regret it. I’ve never
[3:45] watched this kind of show, but I’m
[3:47] curious. The lighting, the costumes,
[3:50] it’s all so incredibly crude.
[3:52] >> Plus, they reuse the same scenes and
[3:54] the same actors over and over.
[3:56] >> I was just suggesting to Youku earlier.
[3:59] I said it’s totally worth it for real
[4:01] artists to get in and create
[4:03] high-quality content. We could do it.
[4:06] We could make short videos with plot
[4:08] twists.
[4:08] >> That’s very difficult.
[4:10] >> Not difficult at all. Just imagine
[4:12] being a rich person. At most, imagine
[4:14] being the richest person in the city.
[4:17] Because their imagination is too broad
[4:19] and they have no concept of money, the
[4:21] numbers are never accurate. They throw
[4:23] around "hundreds of billions." If you
[4:25] knew a little bit, you wouldn't say
[4:27] billions, even millions would be decent
[4:29] , right? They just come out as a
[4:31] billionaire right off the bat.
[4:33] >> What are they chasing? It’s just the
[4:35] thrill.
[4:36] >> Right.
[4:37] >> But why do they need this specific
[4:39] thing to get a thrill? Think about it.
[4:42] But I think this thrill has always been
[4:43] the same; like when we were kids, I
[4:44] loved watching that movie*The Million
[4:46] Pound Bank Note*.
[4:47] >> Right.
[4:48] >> It's just like this knight story;
[4:49] people crave miracles in their lives.
[4:51] These miracles could be getting rich,
[4:53] or thinking, "Maybe my parents didn't
[4:55] give birth to me, maybe my real parents
[4:57] are billionaires." I think this is
[4:58] human nature, and it never changes.
[5:00] When I was a kid, I used to fantasize
[5:03] about that. I think it might have been
[5:05] after reading some mind-bending
[5:08] literary work or watching a movie with
[5:10] deep satirical meaning.
[5:12] >> But kids don't get the satire; you just
[5:14] think, "Wow, wouldn't it be even better
[5:16] if I actually had a million pounds?"
[5:18] >> No wonder I always wondered, "Why am I
[5:20] not an heir to a fortune?"
[5:22] >> Right, it's actually the same thing.
[5:24] That's exactly what literary structural
[5:27] functionalism is—it's human
[5:29] psychology, breaking down barriers of
[5:31] class, gender, and race. Actually, I
[5:33] want to offer you a way to get rich,
[5:35] since short dramas are only a minute
[5:37] long. You take a 60-minute episode and
[5:40] cut it into 60 segments, right? Each
[5:43] episode is one minute, as discussed,
[5:45] and maybe even less is fine.
[5:47] >> We'll charge three dollars to watch the
[5:49] second episode.
[5:50] >> We are truly honest people. For my show
[5:54] , we could make an episode last two and
[5:57] a half hours. In the end, we did an
[6:00] extra episode for free as a volunteer
[6:02] effort because we'd already filmed it
[6:04] and couldn't bear not to show it to the
[6:07] audience. So you see, even someone as
[6:09] money-minded as me has something in
[6:11] their heart that can't be bought; I'm
[6:14] too obsessed with it for just two
[6:16] minutes.
[6:16] >> People actually gave it a five-star
[6:19] rating on Douban. No, but even an
[6:21] honest person like you needs to keep up
[6:23] with the times. You obviously can't
[6:25] make it like that now; people won't
[6:28] finish watching it. And look, the other
[6:30] day, a veteran performing artist sat at
[6:33] our table and let out a long sigh,
[6:35] saying the data is out—for the first
[6:38] time, the short drama market has
[6:40] surpassed our film market; those were
[6:42] last year's figures. Year.
[6:45] >> The film market is 50 billion, and the
[6:47] short drama market is 42.5 billion. You
[6:49] can see that the authorities want to
[6:51] guide us now. I think what that mayor
[6:53] said was quite interesting, saying that
[6:55] these short dramas need to improve
[6:57] their quality.
[6:58] >> And he looks at this as literature,
[7:00] saying that short dramas need to evolve
[7:03] from expressing emotions to expressing
[7:05] feelings, and from expressing feelings
[7:07] to expressing sentiments. That is the
[7:10] path you all should take.
[7:12] >> And to some extent, it will change the
[7:14] aesthetics of our future generations.
[7:15] First of all, look, because of short
[7:17] dramas and short videos, our perception
[7:19] of time has already been altered. Back
[7:20] when we were kids, you’d sit there
[7:22] reading a book, and after an afternoon,
[7:23] you’d look up and see it’s dark,
[7:24] and you’d finished the book. Nowadays
[7:26] , sometimes I feel like I’ve been
[7:27] reading for a long time, but I look up
[7:29] and only ten minutes have passed. Our
[7:31] perception of time has been
[7:32] fundamentally altered, and furthermore,
[7:34] our aesthetic sensibilities have
[7:35] changed too. For instance, even before
[7:38] short-form dramas, Hollywood films had
[7:40] already changed. In the past, you’d
[7:42] watch for five minutes before a small
[7:43] crisis appeared; now, that’s not the
[7:45] case. As soon as the opening credits
[7:47] end, the very first scene is already a
[7:49] mini-crisis. We’ve had a fundamental
[7:51] shift in our expectations for plot
[7:53] twists and pacing. That is why I feel
[7:55] there is no going back. The core focus
[7:58] has already shifted.
[8:00] >> There’s a recent scientific research
[8:02] report; its conclusions are similar to
[8:05] previous studies by others, but it uses
[8:07] a larger scale and a broader sample
[8:10] size from across the world. It relies
[8:14] entirely on physiological techniques.
[8:19] >> They compared people who use AI for
[8:21] creating, writing reports, or reading
[8:24] with those who use it less, and by
[8:27] scanning their brains, the structural
[8:29] changes are very clear. In fact, there
[8:35] was previous evidence showing that
[8:38] people who frequently use AI or watch
[8:41] short videos have lower brain activity
[8:43] levels. You might think you’re seeing
[8:48] a lot of action, watching one thing
[8:50] after another, but your brain's
[8:52] activity levels and cognitive depth—
[8:54] I’m not just talking about the mental
[8:57] side, but the actual operations within
[8:59] your brain—can be scanned, and that
[9:01] level of activation is actually lower.
[9:04] Because you aren’t forcing yourself
[9:07] to actively understand, organize, think
[9:10] , or imagine; you’re just sitting
[9:12] there receiving. Conversely, those who
[9:15] don’t consume massive amounts of
[9:17] short videos or AI-generated content
[9:19] have much higher brain activity, and
[9:22] it’s not just while you’re using
[9:24] them—it affects you long-term. As I
[9:27] said, there’s no going back; it’s
[9:29] not just our perception, the entire
[9:31] operation of the brain, the very
[9:34] hardware, has been changed. So, last
[9:36] year in 2024, Oxford had its annual
[9:39] word of the year for the
[9:41] English-speaking world, and the 2024
[9:43] Oxford Word of the Year was "brain rot.
[9:46] "
[9:46] >> Mm. "
[9:47] >> Brain rot," which translates into
[9:50] Chinese as the decaying of the brain.
[9:54] >> Its basic explanation is a decline in
[9:57] human cognitive ability, leaving us
[9:59] only suited for consuming fragmented
[10:02] information. It basically means that
[10:04] people are gradually becoming dumber.
[10:07] >> Current research on the brain has
[10:09] discovered a specific trait in how we
[10:12] remember time. When you experience a
[10:15] beautiful moment—for example, being
[10:18] with a loved one or enjoying beautiful
[10:21] music—you feel like time flies. Good
[10:24] times always pass quickly, right? It
[10:28] feels very short, but when you look
[10:30] back on it later, that period becomes
[10:33] exceptionally vivid. Conversely, for
[10:37] those uncomfortable moments in life—
[10:40] like working or sitting in meetings—
[10:43] when you're really annoyed, you feel
[10:46] like each day drags on. At the time, it
[10:50] feels like forever, but later on, in
[10:53] your memories, it actually becomes very
[10:56] short.
[10:57] >> But now, they say that if you watch a
[11:00] massive amount of short videos, what is
[11:02] actually happening? It's a double
[11:06] whammy: it feels fast at the time, and
[11:08] afterward, you remember nothing—as if
[11:11] it never happened. It's just like
[11:15] watching our show; it's a double void
[11:17] that leaves no trace on your brain.
[11:21] However, you could say that I actually
[11:24] don't think anything is entirely
[11:26] negative. In this regard, I differ from
[11:30] many intellectuals; I am a selfish
[11:33] person. If I were to worry about the
[11:35] common people, or for the public, or
[11:37] for the world, then I would also agree:
[11:39] "Oh my, what are we going to do? People
[11:41] are just playing games, what are we
[11:43] going to do?" So many people are
[11:44] scrolling through short videos,
[11:46] becoming more and more foolish. But
[11:48] from my own personal experience, I feel
[11:51] this is the era I most want to live in.
[11:54] Not the Song Dynasty, nor the Qin; at
[11:57] the very least, this era has air
[11:59] conditioning, right? In fact, there
[12:03] exists a type of master—I'm not
[12:06] saying I am one—but I imagine that
[12:08] you can master it, as long as you have
[12:11] enough "drive." As long as you have
[12:16] enough of a quest for wisdom and a
[12:18] demand for self-improvement, anything
[12:21] that comes your way can actually be
[12:23] used to your advantage. Everyone says
[12:27] that mindlessly scrolling through short
[12:30] videos is bad, but man, I honestly
[12:32] don't see a difference. I have dozens
[12:35] of books spread across three tables,
[12:38] and I just read a bit here and a bit
[12:40] there. My reading habits have already
[12:43] become like this. In reality, all media
[12:46] in this world is nothing but a book.
[12:48] Hmm.
[12:49] >> Aren't short videos books too? I feel
[12:53] it's like a servant, always trying to
[12:56] second-guess your intentions, pushing
[12:58] you whatever you like. But I also find
[13:03] that when I look for knowledge I value
[13:06] —take philosophy, for example—some
[13:08] of the accounts I filter through do
[13:11] have a tendency to oversimplify. But as
[13:16] I said, for people with our experience,
[13:19] we know what's been simplified, so we
[13:21] don't mistake that for the classics,
[13:24] right? But is it inspiring? Of course
[13:28] it's inspiring. We were just talking
[13:30] about practicing our own ability to
[13:32] summarize and distill information. I
[13:35] think many content creators, well, on
[13:37] one hand, you have to realize that
[13:39] summarizing someone's work in three
[13:41] sentences isn't reliable. But at the
[13:44] end of the day, those three sentences
[13:46] they summarized are still that person's
[13:48] words. They’ve helped me select them,
[13:51] and I don't have the time—not in this
[13:53] lifetime—to read all of their work,
[13:55] so getting a little bit is something.
[13:58] Every little bit, I integrate it into
[14:00] my own personal knowledge structure. So
[14:03] , if you put it that way, this era—
[14:05] whether it's short videos or whatever
[14:08] —I watch classics, I watch everything
[14:10] . It provides more, as long as you can
[14:12] —I mean, it's just like a gourmet,
[14:15] you have to know how to choose.
[14:17] >> Isn't that a help to you?
[14:19] >> I actually agree with what you said; I
[14:21] don't think it's inherently good or bad
[14:24] . You know, I read a book by a French
[14:26] thinker named Debord who passed away in
[14:29] the 90s; he wrote a book titled "The
[14:32] Society of the Spectacle."
[14:34] >> He actually foresaw the life we live
[14:36] today, which is a life entirely defined
[14:39] by being watched. In a way, our own
[14:41] experiences have been replaced by being
[14:44] watched and being presented.
[14:46] >> It's as if I don't need to live it
[14:48] myself anymore. Through videos, through
[14:50] watching, it feels like it has replaced
[14:53] the act of experiencing things
[14:54] firsthand; it's being watched and
[14:56] presented at all times and in all
[14:58] places. Recently, before I came here, I
[15:00] was doing a show in Shanghai related to
[15:02] hosting, and a lot of it involved
[15:04] documenting those kids in a reality
[15:05] show format. They gave me an office,
[15:07] and there were cameras set up all
[15:09] around it. So I stayed inside, fully
[15:11] aware that something was filming me. I
[15:14] realize I am in a state of being
[15:15] watched, and you—well, I’m not a
[15:17] regular person, but slowly you ignore
[15:18] its presence, and then I become highly
[15:20] focused because I know I cannot do
[15:22] anything inappropriate, so what should
[15:24] I do? Let me read a book. So, under the
[15:26] gaze of many cameras, I finished a book
[15:29] at an unprecedented speed. This is a
[15:31] particularly bizarre state.
[15:33] >> Finished it in a flow state.
[15:35] >> In a flow state—at first, it had a
[15:37] performative quality because you were
[15:38] watching me, okay, so I’ll read a
[15:40] book, I’ll just do that, I won't move
[15:41] and I'll just read, and as I read, I
[15:43] got absorbed into it. I was in a state
[15:44] of being watched, which is the state of
[15:46] our modern life—we are being watched
[15:48] anytime, anywhere, and we are
[15:50] performing.
[15:50] >> Wow, this is the very performance
[15:51] experience of those veteran actors from
[15:53] the Beijing People's Art Theatre on
[15:54] stage.
[15:55] >> Being watched,
[15:56] >> They know they are being watched, yet
[15:58] they are fully immersed in it.
[15:59] >> Gradually, they get into it.
[16:00] >> Oh, you're an expert, you see it in our
[16:02] home.
[16:03] >> The hand is there. So, if we follow Dou
[16:06] Wentao's point, I believe we all have
[16:09] had such experiences—taking in many
[16:11] things and integrating them into our
[16:14] own thought systems, so from this
[16:16] perspective, we are a very fortunate
[16:18] generation. When we grew up, there were
[16:22] basically no short videos, not even
[16:24] mobile phones, and not even the
[16:26] internet. That foundation, the inherent
[16:29] foundation, and the various structures
[16:32] of knowledge. We already had a
[16:36] framework, and then suddenly we faced
[16:38] this onslaught of various short videos
[16:41] and all sorts of novel things. We can
[16:45] choose to take what we need, what
[16:47] resonates with us. Otherwise, if you
[16:52] were like this from birth, you wouldn't
[16:54] have much capacity; let alone managing
[16:57] wealth, you wouldn't have the
[16:59] foundation to handle anything longer,
[17:01] more serious, or more complex. We have
[17:05] the benefits of both sides, or perhaps
[17:07] the characteristics of both sides.
[17:10] >> I think we are lucky.
[17:12] >> I agree with his view—that most
[17:14] famous Frankfurt School thinker, Walter
[17:17] Benjamin,
[17:17] >> He very early on noted that film is an
[17:20] art form that can be perfectly
[17:23] reproduced.
[17:23] >> Mm.
[17:24] >> He said that before this, the core
[17:27] concept when we appreciated art was
[17:29] what he called "aura." It’s like how
[17:31] we all watched a movie when we were
[17:33] kids that we couldn't forget for a long
[17:35] , long time. Ah, is this the best one?
[17:38] Is it called "aura"?
[17:40] >> Yes.
[17:41] >> That is "aura," as we translate it.
[17:44] >> But since the advent of cinema, it’s
[17:46] about "shock"—it’s meant to startle
[17:49] . People today are all being
[17:50] transformed, and we are being
[17:52] transformed as well. You walk into the
[17:53] cinema, a few minutes in, the woman
[17:55] goes to take a shower, then she comes
[17:57] out to get dressed—what is going on?
[17:59] No one comes to assassinate her,
[18:01] nothing happens; we’re all hoping for
[18:03] some event, but you can’t just have
[18:05] her come out and eat again, what’s
[18:07] the point? We have been transformed,
[18:10] but we still hold the memory of reading
[18:12] a Turgenev novel as kids; after reading
[18:15] it, a teenager would just be left
[18:17] feeling lost for ages. Now, there are
[18:20] no works that make you think like that
[18:23] for so long.
[18:24] >> But will our future lifestyle be slowly
[18:26] altered and alienated? Often, watching
[18:29] and being watched has become more
[18:31] important than the experience itself.
[18:33] For instance, at night, I scroll
[18:35] through short videos, like food-related
[18:37] ones, as if by watching, I...
[18:39] >> You’re so thin, yet you like
[18:40] scrolling through food videos. I really
[18:43] do.
[18:43] >> You like good food, but you don't eat
[18:45] much, right?
[18:45] >> I do like food. Look, all the rumors
[18:49] about what I eat and don’t eat are
[18:52] nonsense.
[18:52] >> Right, he’s going to sue me. I said
[18:55] back in the day in Hong Kong, he only
[18:57] ate seven grains of rice, but later he
[18:59] didn’t dare—I said, make it
[19:01] twenty-seven. Right, my point is, look,
[19:03] when you scroll through short videos,
[19:05] many of your desires are satisfied just
[19:07] by watching. Like going somewhere to
[19:09] travel, eating delicious food, or
[19:11] watching something—it’s as if by
[19:12] watching the video, you no longer need
[19:14] to experience it yourself. To me, this
[19:16] is a kind of alienation. Will our
[19:18] future human interactions undergo a
[19:20] fundamental change? It already happened
[19:23] long ago. If you keep mentioning "to
[19:26] see or to be seen," that was initially
[19:29] an urban life experience. Before the
[19:32] internet age, because cities had more
[19:34] people—and now, the whole population
[19:37] ...
[19:38] >> With higher population density, more
[19:41] strange things happen, and the media is
[19:44] more developed. On this, I might have
[19:47] more to say; Shanghai has it too, but I
[19:49] grew up in Hong Kong.
[19:53] >> From around when I was ten years old,
[19:56] entering the 70s and 80s, I would see
[19:58] people walking on the street,
[20:00] especially, say, waiting for a bus at a
[20:03] bus stop. The vast majority of,
[20:07] especially, young people—you look at
[20:10] their posture, it’s always like this.
[20:13] For example, in many Hong Kong movies,
[20:15] you see actors like Stephen Chow, or
[20:18] even...
[20:19] >> Right, and when they stand, they always
[20:21] have to do that, yes. Actually, that is
[20:23] "to see or to be seen." Watching and
[20:25] being watched seems to be constant.
[20:27] >> Oh, so he was doing that on purpose.
[20:29] >> Yes, it's called irony. Because in Hong
[20:32] Kong, we are used to it, so when we see
[20:34] him like that, we respond with irony.
[20:37] He feels, yes, like there's always a
[20:39] camera on him, and you could show up on
[20:42] TV or in a gossip magazine at any time,
[20:45] even if you're just an ordinary person.
[20:49] So for us, growing up in the city, we
[20:52] pay extra attention to how we act, like
[20:55] not doing certain things in certain
[20:57] places, or not squatting like that.
[21:00] >> Watching short videos has changed our
[21:02] own lives. This used to happen in
[21:05] cities before, but now with short
[21:07] videos and the internet, it's different
[21:09] . We have to check in everywhere, and
[21:13] there’s a saying about life that if
[21:15] something wasn't filmed, or even worse,
[21:18] not filmed and posted, it simply
[21:20] doesn't exist.
[21:21] >> Exactly.
[21:23] >> Everything has to be converted into a
[21:25] photo you've taken and posted, all
[21:27] those details.
[21:28] >> Like my story from earlier. Right, just
[21:31] like someone filming me before I
[21:33] started.
[21:34] >> Exactly, you care if someone is filming
[21:36] .
[21:36] >> Actually, there's a key distinction
[21:39] here: whether you live with peace of
[21:41] mind and whether you are happy; no
[21:43] matter what you encounter, if you enjoy
[21:45] it, there's nothing wrong with that.
[21:47] >> So whether you can adapt to it actually
[21:50] depends on that. Some people can enjoy
[21:52] whatever new things the world brings,
[21:54] no matter how it changes, which is
[21:57] awesome. But back then, there was
[21:59] Keynes, the famous economist, who said
[22:01] that by our time, we'd only work 15
[22:03] hours a week because technology would
[22:05] replace us.
[22:06] >> Working three days.
[22:08] >> Right, but his prediction...
[22:10] >> His prediction didn't come true. In
[22:12] reality, the more advanced the
[22:13] technology and the more convenient the
[22:15] tools, the busier you become. Just like
[22:16] someone saying, "I don't have to take
[22:18] an ox cart anymore; I take a plane, and
[22:20] I can fly from Shenzhen to Beijing in
[22:22] two hours." Then they say, "But I land
[22:24] in Beijing at noon and have to head
[22:26] straight to a meeting in the afternoon.
[22:27] "
[22:27] >> Mm. Do you understand? This is a
[22:30] technological scam; why are we still
[22:32] scrolling on our phones even when we're
[22:34] on a plane?
[22:35] >> Exactly, why hasn't it brought us
[22:37] leisure? Why, as things become more
[22:39] advanced—wasn't the purpose of
[22:40] development supposed to be giving us
[22:42] free time to play, right? Leisure,
[22:44] right? But why has it made us busier
[22:47] and more stressed? I think I've
[22:50] listened to the whole discussion, and
[22:53] I’ve heard almost all these terms—
[22:55] anxiety, tension—and we really need
[22:57] to find peace of mind. It’s all
[23:00] because we once had a quieter era. As I
[23:03] just said, we are a lucky generation,
[23:06] with that foundation of a quiet and
[23:09] slow-paced time. But later on, imagine
[23:12] if you were born looking at a
[23:14] smartphone, starting from two or three
[23:16] years old.
[23:18] >> To them, all the language you use—
[23:20] like "anxiety,""busy," or "must have
[23:23] peace of mind"—simply doesn't exist.
[23:26] It’s meaningless. From the moment
[23:30] they enter this world and start
[23:32] building relationships with it, they
[23:34] are multitasking, doing all sorts of
[23:37] things. Growing up, this is their life,
[23:41] their world. So when we discuss all
[23:45] these anxieties and worries related to
[23:47] being "fast," for a large portion of
[23:50] them—and since the future belongs to
[23:52] the young—it’s not a problem at all
[23:55] . To them, it’s as natural as
[23:59] breathing. Only we, having experienced
[24:02] that era and felt the beauty and peace
[24:05] of those days, worry about losing it
[24:08] and feeling increasingly crowded. They
[24:12] look at us, they listen, and young
[24:14] friends today might not understand what
[24:16] you’re worried about at all. "
[24:18] >> Isn't it just supposed to be this way?"
[24:21] >> Does that worry you, Lu Yu? Do you feel
[24:23] like you're constantly bustling about,
[24:24] or that you're constantly being pushed
[24:26] to move faster?
[24:27] >> The busyness I have now is something I
[24:29] chose for myself. It’s my own choice.
[24:31] I could slow down, but I don't think I
[24:34] would enjoy that kind of life much. So,
[24:36] I choose one that I enjoy, because I
[24:38] feel that speed is relative; there is
[24:40] no single standard. We humans are
[24:42] always accustomed to using our own
[24:44] lives and past experiences as a
[24:46] benchmark. Anything that differs from
[24:48] our perception is deemed "too fast" or
[24:50] "too slow." In reality, is there such a
[24:52] thing as absolute speed? If you put it
[24:54] that way, I am actually quite
[24:55] pessimistic in the end. I wonder if one
[24:57] day we will die because of the
[24:59] technology we’ve invented. Look at
[25:01] the meeting in Beijing with Sam Altman
[25:03] recently. He was quite pessimistic. He
[25:06] believes AI has already exceeded his
[25:08] imagination. There are now three
[25:10] scientists who fully regret the
[25:12] earth-shattering technologies they
[25:14] invented: Oppenheimer, Altman, and Tim
[25:16] Berners-Lee, the inventor of the World
[25:19] Wide Web. Because when they were
[25:20] inventing them, they couldn't imagine
[25:22] what the future would hold. But
[25:24] personally, I think they’re having it
[25:26] both ways; a scientist couldn't
[25:27] possibly fail to foresee the pros and
[25:29] cons of their invention, yet they chose
[25:31] to invent it anyway. After inventing it
[25:33] , they feel like there’s indeed a
[25:35] problem, and then they start to express
[25:37] regret. What I mean is that perhaps the
[25:39] ultimate development of technology
[25:41] exceeds my imagination; it might be
[25:42] terrifying, but at this moment, this is
[25:44] our generation's
[25:45] >> fate.
[25:47] >> They say that, for example, product
[25:49] managers for short-video platforms can
[25:51] develop a product every time they
[25:54] discover a human weakness. So, in the
[25:57] end, everything is targeted at your
[26:00] human weaknesses.
[26:01] >> It's all algorithms.
[26:03] >> Even the way we swipe on phones.
[26:05] >> But looking at the algorithms, they
[26:06] lean quite low-brow. This shows that
[26:08] the broader the coverage, the narrower
[26:10] it actually becomes in certain
[26:11] perspectives. That is, everyone's
[26:13] interests. To me, short videos—I
[26:15] don't know why you dislike them; I
[26:16] actually appreciate them. Dislike? I
[26:19] don't dislike them. We don't dislike
[26:21] them. OK, OK, so we have a consensus.
[26:24] Dislike, dislike, that's why I said
[26:26] let's talk, we don't—
[26:27] >> For me, the function of short videos is
[26:30] that before I go to sleep at night,
[26:32] after I've finished most of my work, I
[26:34] have two ways to put myself to sleep:
[26:36] either play computer games or watch
[26:39] short videos.
[26:40] >> And short videos really have a benefit.
[26:43] I like watching clips of concerts, so I
[26:45] put on my headphones. The more you
[26:47] watch, the more they send you.
[26:49] >> Right? They have all kinds of good
[26:52] content, giving you these snippets.
[26:54] With headphones on, the effect is
[26:56] excellent; I watch them and drift off
[26:58] to sleep. So, personally, not only do I
[27:01] not dislike them, I am very grateful
[27:03] for short videos. Why? Because my
[27:06] mother—my mother is over 80, and she
[27:09] hasn't been well; these past two years
[27:11] her health has been poor, her legs—
[27:13] >> are difficult to walk on. But she is
[27:16] someone who is usually very cheerful
[27:19] and loves to talk and go out, so you
[27:21] can imagine how miserable this is.
[27:24] Every time I see her, we talk about
[27:26] what she does, and she says, "Oh,
[27:28] videos." She doesn't necessarily watch
[27:31] dramas, just all kinds of short things.
[27:34] Once, I sat there chatting with her for
[27:36] ten minutes, but we ran out of things
[27:38] to say; parents and children don't
[27:40] always have that many topics. So we
[27:42] just sat there, me scrolling on my
[27:44] phone, and her scrolling on her tablet.
[27:47] Then I snuck a glance at my mother, and
[27:50] I was deeply moved. I saw a smile on
[27:53] her face that I was unable to provide
[27:55] for her. She was watching all kinds of
[27:58] short videos, hosted by various people,
[28:01] talking about travel, fitness, health,
[28:04] and maintenance. Seeing my mother smile
[28:09] , I was moved, but also ashamed that I
[28:11] couldn't bring that kind of smile to my
[28:14] 80-year-old mother. So how grateful I
[28:19] am for short videos; they bring my
[28:21] mother happiness. Yes, you’re
[28:23] absolutely right. The issue is actually
[28:27] this: why are our senses constantly
[28:30] being hijacked? I’ve had a feeling
[28:33] lately—look, our senses are just so
[28:36] greedy. Take eating, for example. Many
[28:39] people say, "Luyu’s show" or even our
[28:42] show is a "perfect companion for a meal
[28:45] ." The food is delicious, but our
[28:47] senses can't handle any emptiness; we
[28:49] have to watch a show to enjoy the meal
[28:51] more. See, "mealtime shows" exist
[28:53] exactly for this reason, right? Like,
[28:55] back in the day, was it "Qiang Qiang"?
[28:58] "
[28:58] >> Qiang Qiang" was right at noon. "
[29:00] >> Yuan Zhou Pai" had many, too.
[29:03] >> Many people even play audio while
[29:05] taking a shower—wow, they just have
[29:08] to have music or something on. I’m
[29:13] not sure if this is good or bad, but it
[29:16] makes me sigh. It’s like our eyes,
[29:19] ears, nose, tongue, and body—the five
[29:21] senses—are all insatiable. They’re
[29:24] so gluttonous. Actually, on the other
[29:27] hand, it means you can't tolerate any
[29:29] emptiness. Just like you mentioned
[29:30] meditation or the like—it’s
[29:32] essentially about shutting down the
[29:34] senses.
[29:34] >> I don’t know what’s healthy or
[29:36] unhealthy, I just feel we are so greedy
[29:39] ; sometimes we’re truly never
[29:41] satisfied.
[29:42] >> The five senses need to be stimulated
[29:44] simultaneously, they all need input.
[29:46] And that demand for input is pure greed
[29:49] . You talk about short videos; I’m
[29:51] not saying they’re bad, but they
[29:52] certainly have downsides because
[29:54] anything in excess is harmful. The more
[29:56] they satisfy your greed, the more you
[29:58] realize that—much like overeating—
[30:00] it’s not great for you. If you’re
[30:02] the type of person who feels, "I need
[30:04] to fill every single moment with
[30:05] sensory input." Sometimes I turn it
[30:07] around and ask, "Why are you so afraid
[30:09] of empty space?" Why are you so afraid?
[30:12] Why do your ears absolutely need some
[30:13] form of nourishment even while you’re
[30:14] showering? Why can’t you just listen
[30:16] to the sound of the water? Or just
[30:18] allow yourself a moment of silence.
[30:20] >> But why do you think watching a
[30:22] binge-worthy show is any different from
[30:24] you staring at your food or listening
[30:26] to that background noise? To me, the
[30:28] sound of the show I'm binging is just
[30:30] like the sound you hear while showering
[30:32] ; they are the same—they both provide
[30:34] me with a sense of comfort. Yeah,
[30:36] that’s my personal feeling. I’m
[30:39] someone who can’t stand sensory voids
[30:42] , but lately, I’ve felt there’s an
[30:45] issue. I’m constantly filling myself
[30:48] up, letting my eyes, ears, and mind
[30:51] absorb everything every second. Of
[30:54] course, they’re baiting me, right?
[30:57] But I just wonder, like Laozi said,
[31:00] when "the five colors blind the eye,"
[31:03] is it possible to just...not take
[31:05] anything in?
[31:06] >> Instead of reflecting on yourself. It's
[31:09] better to blame others. I don’t want
[31:11] that right now. I just feel like, at
[31:13] this moment, what I need...Then
[31:14] that’s what I need. Look, there used
[31:16] to be a saying, and I always thought, "
[31:18] Wow, that’s such a great line." We
[31:19] often say "love is the smallest unit of
[31:22] communism." I think short-form video is
[31:24] , to some extent, that. In the past, we
[31:26] believed that only those of us who had
[31:27] formal, professional training were
[31:29] qualified to produce certain types of
[31:30] videos. Now, that barrier has been
[31:33] completely broken. At the same time,
[31:35] for everything that gets shorter, there
[31:36] will always be a place for the
[31:38] long-form. You just said we’re all
[31:40] controlled by algorithms; they say
[31:41] podcasts are currently the only medium
[31:43] that can escape the algorithm.
[31:45] >> Alright, I’ll check out your podcast.
[31:47] >> No, it's about what you said regarding
[31:49] needing companionship. When I’m
[31:51] taking a shower, I can't listen to a
[31:53] one-minute or ten-second video. I need
[31:55] to listen to something long-form, like
[31:57] an hour minimum. Listening while
[31:59] showering? We can’t hear it clearly,
[32:01] right? Have you tried?
[32:03] >> I have tried. You just take the phone
[32:06] ...
[32:06] >> You turn off the water, right? Just
[32:08] standing in there.
[32:10] >> You put the phone on the side, turn the
[32:11] volume up to the max, and you can
[32:13] actually hear it while showering. I...
[32:15] >> I’ve honestly never heard of that
[32:17] before. I mean, look, even being unable
[32:19] to be idle for a single moment, I think
[32:22] that’s also a way of showing a love
[32:24] for life. A netizen once told me that
[32:26] when they go running...
[32:27] >> They would listen...
[32:29] >> Listen to my audio where I talk about
[32:31] Zhang Anlin. At the time, I thought
[32:33] they were teasing me, like...
[32:35] >> Like they were bringing you down, but
[32:37] then someone said it’s because they
[32:39] respect you.
[32:39] >> It’s a compliment. Oh, a compliment?
[32:42] Okay. Honestly, what you said makes me
[32:46] feel a bit ashamed. These past few
[32:48] months, I’ve been listening to
[32:50] dark-themed podcasts, aside from yours.
[32:53] >> Yours is a bright podcast, but I listen
[32:55] to really dark ones—all about strange
[32:58] cases from around the world.
[33:00] >> Oh, that’s fine too.
[33:04] >> Since my new novel involves a lot of
[33:06] killing and dark, criminal themes,
[33:09] I’ve been drawing inspiration from it
[33:11] to the point of obsession, and
[33:13] listening to it seriously makes my
[33:16] heart run cold. Because it turns out
[33:22] there are so many reasons to kill in
[33:24] this world; of course, you could say it
[33:27] boils down to greed, resentment, and
[33:29] hatred. But all sorts of things can
[33:34] trigger the impulse to commit murder—
[33:37] perhaps just a look, a rejection, or
[33:40] even a seduction. I kept listening, and
[33:45] in the end, besides helping me find
[33:47] inspiration for my novel, it made me
[33:50] doubt myself. At my age, I’ve always
[33:53] considered myself a good person, or at
[33:56] least not a bad one. But...
[33:59] >> I like people so much. Yet, after
[34:02] listening to all that, I wonder, am I
[34:04] really such a good person? I have that
[34:06] same greed, resentment, and hatred in
[34:08] my heart.
[34:09] >> Exactly.
[34:10] >> It’s just that nothing has happened
[34:12] to trigger it yet. It’s a question of
[34:15] levels—what is good and what is bad,
[34:17] right? If we look at it this way,
[34:20] it’s easier to handle, which is why
[34:23] Westerners consider Marx and Freud
[34:25] their greatest thinkers. Everything we
[34:28] just discussed, Freud had already
[34:30] anticipated. When Freud talked about
[34:33] art, he said everyone is an artist.
[34:35] When he first said that, no one thought
[34:38] of it as a form of comfort from a
[34:40] psychological perspective. Given the
[34:42] chance, what is art? It’s the release
[34:45] of the subconscious; it’s what
[34:47] emerges after dreams have been
[34:49] suppressed for too long. So now we have
[34:52] the technical means to do it. We have
[34:55] smartphones, so everyone is an artist
[34:57] —this is Freud’s prophecy, which
[35:00] stands right alongside the prophecies
[35:02] of Marx. True, so while Freud’s
[35:05] theories might not all hold up now, the
[35:07] concepts he introduced are particularly
[35:10] helpful for making certain things clear
[35:13] . For example, I’ve recently felt
[35:15] that most of the suffering that
[35:17] torments me basically comes from my ego
[35:20] failing to meet the demands of my
[35:22] superego—to put it colloquially.
[35:25] >> It’s the moral demands I place on
[35:27] myself.
[35:28] >> But my true self honestly can’t do it
[35:31] ; I just can't, you know? And that
[35:33] makes me feel especially miserable.
[35:36] >> Do you know why?
[35:37] >> Because you have an "id."
[35:39] >> Right, the id, exactly.
[35:41] >> Because the ego is formed by the
[35:42] interplay between the superego and the
[35:44] id. So, your ego fails the superego
[35:47] because there is an id underneath.
[35:49] >> So, why do people need to...? What do
[35:51] you mean by this "id"? It’s basically
[35:54] desire, I suppose.
[35:55] >> Well. It’s like when you talk about
[35:58] whether you’ve become worse or better
[36:00] , I found something quite interesting
[36:02] that an old guy once said. He said, "
[36:05] You know, what’s happening now?
[36:07] It’s, uh, my physical state declines
[36:09] year by year, while my moral standard
[36:11] rises day by day." Don't you find that
[36:13] statement really interesting?
[36:15] >> Actually, a lot of the time, as your
[36:17] desires fade, you start looking at
[36:19] things,
[36:20] >> and you become more compassionate.
[36:22] >> Yes, exactly. That reminds me of a
[36:26] saying, Wentao, do you remember? Many
[36:29] years ago on our show, the Taiwanese
[36:32] writer Chu T'ien-wen,
[36:34] >> Chu T'ien-wen, yes, I remember that
[36:36] time, that episode where she talked
[36:39] about it. She said, "Yesterday I was
[36:42] passing by a place, and a group of
[36:45] teenage high schoolers in uniforms
[36:47] walked past me, flirting and laughing."
[36:51] "I," Chu T'ien-wen said, "could
[36:53] actually smell the hormones they were
[36:56] emitting, wow, that intense scent." But
[36:59] in that moment, Chu T'ien-wen said, I
[37:02] didn't feel sad. Because I've reached
[37:04] this age. I had no reaction, but rather
[37:07] a bit of compassion. All the heartbreak
[37:10] , betrayal, selling out, expectations,
[37:13] and turmoil they have to endure to
[37:15] satisfy those hormones, none of it has
[37:17] anything to do with me, or at least
[37:20] it’s not that important to me anymore
[37:22] . Being able to be a more quiet,
[37:25] peaceful person—this state of mind,
[37:27] as Chu T'ien-wen described, is happy.
[37:30] So that description of yours is also
[37:32] quite fun from a literary perspective,
[37:34] right? About physical states getting
[37:37] lower and lower.
[37:38] >> Physical ability declining year by year
[37:41] ,
[37:41] >> moral standards rising day by day.
[37:43] >> Yes, I feel happy for her.
[37:46] >> It’s a subtle critique, illustrating
[37:48] that our morality and physiology define
[37:50] our humanity.
[37:51] >> It’s just that kind of thing, oh,
[37:53] really.
[37:53] >> What kind of thing?
[37:54] >> I don’t know.
[37:56] >> That’s all there is to life, isn’t
[37:58] it? What is it, really? It’s about
[38:01] seeking peace—can you be at peace,
[38:04] can you be happy? Some people blame
[38:07] society, technology, humanity, fate, or
[38:10] the world. Actually, of course, we all
[38:13] know that life is suffering and living
[38:15] is not easy. But the problem is, look,
[38:17] emotional issues have become
[38:19] particularly prominent now. I actually
[38:21] think our frequent discussions on this
[38:23] have layers, like regarding short
[38:25] videos and short clips—it’s about
[38:27] emotion, sentiment, and depth; it’s a
[38:29] hierarchy. Human emotions are quite
[38:31] pathetic, and do you know why? Your
[38:33] brain's instinct is that when you see a
[38:35] piece of information, you have an
[38:37] emotional reaction to it, right? If you
[38:39] don't consume too much in a day, your
[38:41] emotions remain relatively normal and
[38:44] stable. But if you take in too much—
[38:47] really, when I see a peer succeed, I
[38:50] get jealous. Right, and if I see a peer
[38:54] fail, I feel glad. This emotional
[38:56] roller coaster—it's the same for
[38:59] young people. People see others living
[39:02] such good lives, or having
[39:04] opportunities, because all these
[39:06] success stories lack the process. They
[39:09] just briefly tell you that someone
[39:10] bought something and is rich now. Right
[39:13] , they don't. You just see them, no. If
[39:16] people could see the process, if I knew
[39:17] how they got there, that they struggled
[39:19] for years. Take Guo Degang, who says, "
[39:21] I became an overnight success." Which "
[39:23] night" was I a success on? Right?
[39:25] Overnight success—when did I actually
[39:27] become a success? I spent over a decade
[39:28] working silently; back then, there were
[39:30] more people on stage than in the
[39:32] audience. Why didn't you see that? If
[39:34] you consume their success stories
[39:37] through short videos, you'll think, "
[39:39] >> That's satisfying."
[39:40] >> It is satisfying, but also stimulating.
[39:43] And because our capabilities—like
[39:46] having WeChat—have improved, I've
[39:48] found that while work efficiency does
[39:50] increase, this rise in efficiency
[39:52] creates an illusion of capacity. I feel
[39:55] like people think they can do more, but
[39:58] in reality, I think we need to practice
[40:01] moderation. Because you can do things
[40:03] infinitely, you end up with a huge pile
[40:06] of tasks—messages to reply to, right?
[40:09] "Xu Lao" needs comforting, Lu Yu needs
[40:12] something, there's something on that
[40:14] platform. And it’s this—half a
[40:17] minute of annoyance, half a minute of
[40:19] happiness, half a minute of joy, half a
[40:22] minute of anger. Is this entire
[40:25] emotional issue the reason for the
[40:27] anxiety many people feel today?
[40:29] >> I agree with his point; he says
[40:31] technology brings convenience, but
[40:33] people send—like, work-related
[40:34] messages to me—my God, starting at 50
[40:36] seconds long, one after another. I saw
[40:38] them yesterday and they didn't even
[40:40] type, just voice messages.
[40:41] >> Voice messages are used without any
[40:43] restraint, basically over 50 seconds,
[40:45] 50 seconds long. I didn't look for a
[40:46] while. And there was already a pile.
[40:49] It's just the changes brought by
[40:50] technology. Call it importance; we
[40:52] don't have that much, I've accepted it.
[40:54] >> It's the same experience as yours.
[40:56] >> Right, that's because he was throwing a
[40:58] tantrum, and I had to comfort him.
[41:00] >> I think I’m a person with a touch of
[41:03] optimism amidst pessimism. You know, I
[41:05] see that short-form videos have brought
[41:07] about what I consider a very positive
[41:08] change in people—everyone has become
[41:10] extremely eager to perform and express
[41:12] themselves. Once, after our crew
[41:14] finished an interview, we had to shoot
[41:16] some establishing shots—atmospheric
[41:18] B-roll, you know. The crew took me out
[41:20] at dusk, past the China World Trade
[41:22] Center on Chang'an Avenue, to an
[41:24] overpass further east. As soon as we
[41:26] got up there, countless independent
[41:28] content creators were filming. That
[41:30] evening scene with the traffic, it just
[41:32] looked really good. My god, they
[41:34] thought I was some big influencer
[41:36] because I had a large crew with me. I
[41:38] saw it and thought, wow. If it were me,
[41:40] if I were talking right now and you
[41:42] were filming me with people watching, I
[41:44] would still feel self-conscious. I
[41:45] don't know if you ever have that sense
[41:47] of embarrassment. Those kids have
[41:49] absolutely no such feeling. A girl came
[41:51] over, took a photo with me, then went
[41:53] to film her short video and instantly
[41:55] burst into tears in front of the camera
[41:56] . I still remember what I said back
[41:58] then: Who in this society would care if
[42:01] you’re crying, or if you’re in pain
[42:03] ? She was talking while instantly
[42:04] weeping—her performative personality
[42:06] was just bursting. I feel this is how
[42:08] short-form videos influence everyone,
[42:10] but I think this is a good thing
[42:12] because you become...
[42:13] >> Everyone is an artist. You become
[42:15] extremely confident and highly
[42:17] expressive. Don't you think this is a
[42:20] positive kind of shift in human nature?
[42:22] >> If I were your family member, I'd be
[42:24] worried; if you were a stranger on the
[42:26] street, I'd praise you.
[42:27] >> I, I...but you haven't considered the
[42:29] differences in personality; it might
[42:31] satisfy many people, but...For example,
[42:33] for me, if I weren't doing this job—
[42:35] starting with my dad, our family has
[42:37] always been low-profile. He never liked
[42:40] to attract attention his whole life. To
[42:42] put it bluntly, if you didn't pay me, I
[42:44] wouldn't even want to speak. You see, I
[42:46] have absolutely no desire for
[42:48] self-expression. I, I'm telling you the
[42:50] truth, and I'm not afraid of anything.
[42:52] That’s why you see I can’t write
[42:54] books either; I have zero desire to
[42:56] write. I love reading, but I have no...
[42:58] I mean, when I have something to say, I
[43:00] only say it to people I'm familiar with
[43:02] . You see, haven't scholars lately been
[43:04] talking about this "stranger" following
[43:06] ? Yes, I prefer small circles, just two
[43:08] or three close friends. I tell you
[43:10] everything, but I have no desire to
[43:12] express anything to strangers. That is
[43:14] how I differ from many people. I think
[43:17] I really can understand those who have
[43:19] an urge to express, so I sometimes have
[43:21] trouble adapting to this era. For
[43:23] example, at first, I couldn't
[43:25] understand posting on Weibo. I’d say,
[43:27] if it doesn't make money, why write it?
[43:29] Right? Later on, I realized, how should
[43:31] I put it? It’s a kind of indirect way
[43:33] of achieving one's goals. So, having an
[43:35] urge to express is a good thing.
[43:37] >> But what you're doing is good; you’re
[43:38] guarding your reputation, because if
[43:40] you say too much, your insights are
[43:41] bound to be diluted. That is a very
[43:42] valuable quality in this day and age.
[43:45] Uh, how should I say this? I’m afraid
[43:48] .
[43:49] >> Afraid of what?
[43:50] >> I’m afraid of what I can’t control,
[43:52] honestly. Making this show, I feel like
[43:55] I'm walking on thin ice because it
[43:56] involves people I can't control. I
[43:58] don’t know if people will judge me
[44:00] for saying something wrong. My
[44:01] knowledge is always limited, you know.
[44:04] I’m not afraid of offending you—
[44:05] privately, we can support or challenge
[44:07] each other. To be honest, this kind of
[44:10] work, being in the public eye—
[44:12] everyone wants to be famous, but
[44:14] actually, I think it’s a double-edged
[44:16] sword.
[44:17] >> You know why you’re under pressure
[44:18] now? It’s because you know your show
[44:20] is being looked forward to. This
[44:22] feeling of being anticipated is a sweet
[44:24] burden, but at the same time, you feel
[44:26] the need to meet everyone's
[44:27] expectations, and that pressure is
[44:29] enormous.
[44:30] >> And then you lose your freedom.
[44:32] >> But there is a bottom line: I still
[44:34] have to say what I truly believe and
[44:36] what I truly see. If it were just to
[44:39] meet expectations and please everyone,
[44:41] I could say anything, and there are
[44:43] other ways to do that. Some people can
[44:45] be popular without any risk, but they
[44:47] aren't willing to do that.
[44:49] >> There are always risks, and there is
[44:51] fear in my heart, but I quite like a
[44:54] certain saying. When you fear something
[44:57] , it exists; when you face it, it
[45:00] disappears. If you fear it and stop
[45:04] speaking or acting, then that thing you
[45:07] fear will exist forever. Some people's
[45:13] so-called "fear," or dread of being in
[45:16] the public eye—perhaps such people
[45:18] crave absolute freedom. That is, they
[45:24] don't want to compromise at all; only
[45:27] in isolation, in their own environment,
[45:29] can they achieve a state where they
[45:32] don't need to answer to anyone. I
[45:36] don’t have to consider anything,
[45:38] because as soon as I go out, I become
[45:41] whoever is in front of me. I have to
[45:43] consider them, so I’m never quite
[45:45] free, though I think that’s as it
[45:47] should be. But in that case, such a
[45:49] person, deep down in their heart,
[45:51] actually wants complete
[45:53] self-centeredness. That’s only
[45:55] possible if you lock yourself in a room
[45:58] alone. But you know, I often find
[45:59] myself welling up with tears lately
[46:01] when I’m scrolling through short
[46:02] videos at night. Have you never come
[46:04] across that kind of content?
[46:05] >> There’s one type that makes me cry
[46:08] every time—when parents, because
[46:10] their child asked for a puppy or a
[46:12] kitten...Then, on the child’s
[46:14] birthday, the parents pull a surprise,
[46:16] putting the puppy or kitten in a box.
[46:18] When the child opens it, they just
[46:20] burst into tears. Those kinds of videos
[46:23] are so intense. Every time I see one, I
[46:27] definitely tear up; it just brings me
[46:30] so much,
[46:31] >> That’s not quite it.
[46:33] >> I don't keep cats or dogs myself, but
[46:36] it still touches me. I’ve realized
[46:38] that, really, all literary expression,
[46:40] artistic expression, including these
[46:43] short videos, sometimes isn't about
[46:45] expressing something, but just about
[46:47] moving people. Using imagery to strike
[46:49] a chord directly. It’s the same as
[46:52] what you said; I also often watch
[46:53] things at night that make me want to
[46:55] cry. I watched one that really made my
[46:58] tears fall: a son goes off to serve in
[47:00] the military in the Middle East, you
[47:02] know, war, danger, he was gone for two
[47:04] years. Then he returns. His mother is
[47:07] an elementary school teacher, and I
[47:09] don't know why someone was filming her
[47:11] class, but the students all knew
[47:13] because they saw her son sneak back and
[47:15] hide behind the classroom door.
[47:17] >> I think I’ve seen that one. Right,
[47:20] and then those students purposely asked
[47:22] the teacher, "Teacher, how is your son?
[47:25] ""How long has it been since you’ve
[47:27] seen him?" And the teacher replied, "My
[47:29] son is currently on a mission serving
[47:31] in the military. I feel very honored
[47:34] and proud. I miss him so much. If he
[47:37] were to suddenly return, I..." and then
[47:39] she couldn't go on. She was missing her
[47:42] son, and then suddenly he came out from
[47:44] behind the door. You’re seeing the
[47:47] same clip. It’s something similar to
[47:49] that.
[47:50] >> Ah, and then the mother, wow, and that
[47:52] kind of thing is very...
[47:53] >> It’s creative, it’s staged. But is
[47:56] it staged? Not really, there are some
[47:59] that are staged, but some are real.
[48:01] Short videos create many new
[48:03] journalistic ethics issues. In my view,
[48:06] staging is, to some extent, a violation
[48:09] of journalistic ethics, but what I
[48:11] mentioned earlier were all real.
[48:13] >> Watching them alone in bed at night
[48:15] while scrolling, that kind of feeling
[48:16] is just satisfying, there's a sense of
[48:18] satisfaction.
[48:19] >> Then you drowning in the water wasn't
[48:21] staged, was it? You were just talking
[48:24] about life's troubles, life's anxieties
[48:27] , and life's hopes. Now, whenever I
[48:30] recall the photos and videos of me
[48:32] being rescued, I don't have those
[48:34] worries anymore.
[48:35] >> But people tend to forget the pain once
[48:37] the wound heals. After that experience
[48:39] really passed, I started to use it as a
[48:41] talking point.
[48:42] >> Do you think this is a good experience?
[48:44] How many times have you had an
[48:46] experience like this?
[48:47] >> I can't say it's good, I think it's bad
[48:51] . It’s a huge risk; you might not
[48:53] have come back just minutes later.
[48:56] >> I think I’ve overrated suffering. I
[48:59] would rather have never suffered and
[49:02] lived an uneventful, ordinary life.
[49:05] >> But your mental and physical states
[49:07] seem quite good.
[49:08] >> If you didn't say it, I wouldn't have
[49:10] guessed; I have depression.
[49:11] >> I actually don't really want to talk.
[49:14] >> Oh, so you want absolute freedom.
[49:17] Freedom. But I still came here against
[49:20] my will and told you this story, which
[49:23] I’ve never told before. Are you
[49:25] depressed yourself? Do you have
[49:27] depression?
[49:28] >> I haven't been tested, but I think for
[49:31] someone like me who is so deep,
[49:33] extremely delicate, and extremely
[49:36] sensitive, I must have some issues. But
[49:39] I don't want to go and take such a test
[49:41] , right. Why would you want to know so
[49:43] much? Because I can; my life hasn't
[49:45] been affected at all. I have normal
[49:47] perception, and everything is fine.
[49:49] Sometimes, there is no trouble in the
[49:51] world, we just create it for ourselves.
[49:53] If I really knew, and people started
[49:55] labeling me, should I take medicine or
[49:57] not? Why bother? I haven't missed out
[50:00] on anything so far. Why do I need to
[50:02] know so much?
[50:02] >> Hey, you have a certain degree of
[50:04] wisdom there.
[50:05] >> Only a certain degree. Hey, but add a
[50:08] disclaimer as a subtitle: if you're
[50:09] really sick, you must seek medical help
[50:11] . Right, it just means that if I have
[50:13] it, it's just what any normal city
[50:15] dweller might have, not something a
[50:16] person with wisdom would have.
[50:18] >> Adding that observation shows more
[50:20] wisdom, the wisdom of a host; I’d say
[50:23] your wisdom has reached the level of
[50:25] Zhuangzi.
[50:27] >> Everyone, so if you ask me whether to
[50:30] meditate, do yoga, or use something
[50:32] else to solve my psychological problems
[50:35] , I’ll tell you—and this might
[50:37] sound a bit arrogant—that I am
[50:39] seeking wisdom. And I feel that such
[50:42] wisdom is often found within the
[50:44] ancient sages and virtuous predecessors
[50:46] . Actually, let me be honest with
[50:48] everyone. We’ve discussed many quick
[50:51] ways to consume information today, but
[50:53] looking at our society, 90%of the "soul
[50:56] chicken soup" out there really follows
[50:58] two paths. One path is that you find
[51:01] inspiration from it, and this "soup" is
[51:04] nutritious, but in the history of my
[51:07] own reading, I feel there is a
[51:09] fundamental approach—for instance,
[51:11] why should we read the classics?
[51:14] Actually, if you read Buddhist classics
[51:17] or the works of Laozi and Zhuangzi, and
[51:20] you grasp them, you’ll find that 90%
[51:22] of the inspirational content online
[51:25] today is just part of that same system.
[51:27] >> Mm.
[51:29] >> It’s not particularly original;
[51:31] it’s not some kind of modern wisdom.
[51:33] But whether you prefer to learn from
[51:35] the source or the offshoots, that’s a
[51:37] personal choice. Regarding my own issue
[51:40] , where I felt that my greed for
[51:42] knowledge was crowding my life and
[51:45] making me feel overwhelmed, I found
[51:47] inspiration in a quote from Zhuangzi.
[51:50] Hey, what you said corroborates
[51:52] Zhuangzi. Zhuangzi said something so
[51:55] famous: "My life has a limit."
[51:57] >> Mm.
[51:59] >> Our time is limited. "
[52:01] >> While knowledge has no limit"—the
[52:03] things unknown to us in this universe
[52:05] are boundless. If you try to use your
[52:07] limited time to pursue the boundless,
[52:09] you’re "doomed"—like the English
[52:11] word "dead," or the "dai" in "
[52:13] undefeated in a hundred battles"—
[52:14] it’s finished, it’s impossible.
[52:17] This quote perfectly captures the
[52:19] feeling I was describing to you all
[52:21] today. I feel I can’t know everything
[52:25] because my life is too limited, so what
[52:28] should I do? Zhuangzi has a saying for
[52:33] this: "Stop at what you do not know."
[52:37] Don’t be anxious, don’t always feel
[52:39] you haven’t seen enough, and you can
[52:41] be at peace. You can’t know
[52:43] everything, so just stop at what you
[52:45] don’t know. That is, just rest easy
[52:48] and settle right there. I know what I
[52:51] know, and that’s that; I’m natural,
[52:53] and I won’t pretend to know what I
[52:55] don’t. Hey, look, no wonder your exam
[52:57] grades were never good since you were a
[52:59] child. This
[53:01] >> At critical moments, it’s fine as
[53:02] long as you perform at critical moments
[53:04] .
[53:04] >> I really am good at critical moments.
[53:06] I’ve always been lazy, ranking around
[53:09] 30th in class. Why did I get into Wuhan
[53:11] University, a national key university?
[53:14] >> It was just before the college entrance
[53:16] exam. I focused on cramming for a month
[53:19] . You know, I jumped into the top ten.
[53:22] And we were a top-tier high school, so
[53:24] top ten was enough. See, I’m just
[53:26] about right. Not too much, don’t be
[53:29] greedy. If the cutoff score is 500, I
[53:31] score exactly 500.
[53:32] >> I totally agree. I think scoring even
[53:35] one extra point is useless.
[53:36] >> Scoring even one point more is just
[53:38] being a rogue.
[53:39] >> Scoring one more point is just...it’s
[53:41] all excessive.
[53:42] >> That really taught me.
[53:44] >> So everything has to be just right,
[53:46] just like the end of our conversation
[53:48] right now—just right. Thank you.
[53:51] >> Let’s congratulate Teacher Xu.
[53:53] Congratulations, congratulations. This
[53:55] is what they call not being constrained
[53:58] .
[53:58] >> Have you ever bought a lottery ticket?
[54:00] >> Hey, look at you, talking about money,
[54:02] this phone call is all practical.
[54:04] >> Does the company pay for you?
[54:06] >> And it costs very little money.
[54:08] >> You don't need to buy things like
[54:09] accident insurance or travel insurance.
[54:10] >> Look, is this conversation directed at
[54:12] you?
[54:13] >> Wentao usually talks about having
[54:14] integrity. But when he starts fawning,
[54:16] he’s no worse than anyone else.
[54:18] >> Do you remember the plaque I gave the
[54:20] boss?
[54:20] >> What plaque? "
[54:22] >> Everlasting Joy." I bought it at an
[54:25] antique market for 3,000 yuan.
[54:27] >> It was inscribed by a scholar from the
[54:29] late Qing and early Republic era.
[54:31] >> A scholar from Hebei.
[54:33] >> And what’s strange is that this Hebei
[54:34] scholar’s surname was Dou.
[54:36] >> Yes, yes, yes.
[54:37] >> I forgot his full name. It was a plaque
[54:40] with two large characters, "Everlasting
[54:42] Joy," right? Below it was a passage,
[54:44] essentially saying, "I wish you a life
[54:47] of no shame before heaven or earth."
[54:49] This is just too much. Oh my, I feel
[54:51] like this plaque...So you just bought
[54:53] it and gave it to him?
[54:54] >> I just bought it and gave it to him.
[54:55] >> Wentao often does things like this.
[54:57] >> And then, for his birthday once, do you
[54:58] remember what I gave him?
[54:59] >> You? You teachers give gifts? We’ve
[55:02] never given him gifts.
[55:04] >> He wrote a card that said, "Meeting
[55:06] during turbulent times, thanks to
[55:08] Phoenix for your cultivation; I will
[55:10] never forget it."
[55:11] >> Ah, I can’t take it.
[55:13] >> But he...
[55:14] >> But you can't deny I'm sincere. Even if
[55:17] it's too direct, it doesn't matter.
[55:19] Right, but sometimes he is very sincere
[55:22] . Once, in the dressing room, he said,
[55:25] "I just came out of the restroom, saw
[55:27] the boss in the hallway, and I silently
[55:30] put my hands together and prayed toward
[55:33] his back."
[55:35] >> Are you my god?
[55:39] >> Well, I actually think this is exactly
[55:41] the quality lacking in today's society;
[55:43] there are fewer and fewer people who
[55:46] know how to be grateful. You're talking
[55:48] about never forgetting where your meals
[55:50] come from. You should remember your
[55:52] origins and who helped you. Why is
[55:54] there no creativity now? People copy
[55:57] everything and then pass it off as
[55:59] their own original work.
[56:00] >> It has to do with ability, and it has
[56:02] to do with opportunity; you can't miss
[56:04] a single link.
[56:05] >> Hebei Dalton, Dalton.
[56:08] >> Hebei fighters, I remember, I remember
[56:09] at the time we teased him quite a bit,
[56:11] you know, we teased him quite a bit. He
[56:13] bought the finished product. Oh, it’s
[56:15] such a coincidence! We mocked him
[56:17] because he was too direct, and others
[56:19] didn't even realize he was flattering
[56:21] them.
[56:21] >> Because he was so sycophantic, it
[56:23] seemed exceptionally sincere, you know.
[56:25] >> That's just who he is, don't you think?
[56:27] He might have...
[56:29] >> When you come across that, you’d feel
[56:30] bad if you didn't buy it.
[56:31] >> You’d feel bad if you didn't buy it.
[56:33] >> It really might be your ancestors;
[56:34] after all, it's Hebei fighters, we are
[56:36] just fighters.
[56:36] >> Some people just don't remember. Ah.
[56:39] >> What a coincidence.
[56:41] >> Wentao has an appearance that makes him
[56:43] look like a clever and slick Southerner
[56:46] .
[56:46] >> But deep down, there is a stubbornness
[56:48] of a Northerner.
[56:49] >> Yes, yes, yes, I'm actually quite silly
[56:51] .
[56:51] >> Stubborn, not stupid, "stubborn"
[56:53] doesn't mean stupid.
[56:54] >> He is a Southerner, not just looking
[56:56] like one.
[56:57] >> Oh, hm.
[56:58] >> What did you say? What did you say?
[57:01] >> Speaking of Wentao's story.
[57:03] >> Oh, I’ve forgotten, I’ve forgotten
[57:05] a bit. It’s based on Wentao’s
[57:07] terrible, non-existent English, he even
[57:09] asked me, "Why does Han always call me
[57:11] 'Han'?" I said, "Han what?""Honey," you
[57:14] know.
[57:15] >> Oh, right. I said, "Why would he call
[57:18] you 'Han'?" It sounded like a
[57:19] lumberjack to me.
[57:21] >> He told me "Han." My, my, I’m
[57:23] sensitive to language, so I said, "Is
[57:25] it 'Honey'?" He said, "Yes, yes, yes,
[57:27] Honey." So it turned out to be "Honey,"
[57:29] but this Chinese character, wouldn't
[57:31] you say?